How do we live with moral difference and yet
sustain an overarching community?
The answer…is conversation
– not mere debate but the disciplined act of communicating (making my views
intelligible to someone who does not share them) and listening (entering into
the inner world of someone whose views are opposed to my own). Each is a
genuine form of respect, of paying attention to the other, of conferring value
on his or her opinions even though they are not mine. In a debate one side
wins, the other loses, but both are the same as they were before. In a
conversation neither side loses and both are changed, because they now know
what reality looks like from a different perspective. That is not to say that
either group gives up its previous convictions. That is not what conversation
is about. It does mean, however, that I may now realize that I must make space
for another deeply held belief, and If my own case has been compelling, the
other side may understand that it too must make space for mine.
1.Do you agree with this
description of a good, respectful conversation? Why or why not?
2. What are challenges to this
kind of conversation?
3. Under what conditions is this kind of conversation most likely to happen?
3. Under what conditions is this kind of conversation most likely to happen?
4. Do you think young
adults are capable of being the kinds of listeners and speakers? Why or why not?
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1.) I definitely agree with the description of a good, respectful conversation because this is the way that many people would share their views on things and without it, we wouldn't be able to share or learn anything. 2.) The challenges of this type of conversation would be that someone doesn't want to listen or take in what you are trying to share with them. 3.) This is most likely to happen with someone who is not willing to learn anything new. 4.)I think young adults are more capable of being listeners and speakers because they are still young and open to new ideas which makes it easier.
1. I agree with this description of a good, respectful conversation. By truly listening to the other person and attempting to see their perspective, then you can get a better understanding of the opposing view and maybe even find you agree. You don't need to necessarily change the other persons beliefs or have yours changed, but just listen and become aware of their views.
2. Some challenges to this kind of conversation might be that if one person's opinion is so strong and so opposed to hearing the other side, then it could quickly turn into a screaming match. It can be extremely difficult to listen to something that you disagree so strongly to.
1) yes i agree that people should have a good positive conversation and respect each because when you argue constantly you get no where.
1. I agree with good, respectful conversation. It is the only way we can keep a calm atmosphere and get points across for people to grasp points.
2. The challenges are that when the views contract so much it is hard to listen to that person.
3. It is most likely to happen in a working environment or speaking to friends.
4. I do but I think it is more difficult. Because young adults are not yet mature enough to listen to people they disagree with.
1. I fully agree with this. In order to have a good conversation, the people who make up the conversation need to respect the others. I agree with the point of there is no winner and loser to a conversation. Each person in the conversation just gains some kind of knowledge, without winning or losing.
2. The challenges to this kind of conversation include arguments. Some people argue over something and there would be a winner and a loser. That is a challenge to this kind.
3. This is most likely to occur in politics.
4. Yes, young adults are more than mature enough to be great and respectful listeners and speakers.
3. In order for a conversation like this to take place, I would think that both participants need to have an open mind and be willing to listen to another opinion.
4. I think it is possible for young adults to be good at this sort of conversation. Young adults are more open to new ideas and beliefs so that would be helpful in having a discussion. However, young adults can also get angry quickly which would turn a conversation into a yelling argument.
1. Although I feel that this description is an ideal definition, I don't think everyone can share this type of conversation. There are those that are just too fixed on their own ideas that they will tune out everyone else's.
1. Yes I do. I completely agree that there can be a way of effectively listening and communicating each other's opinions without hurting or insulting the other. Both must maintain a certain level of respect for each other and for themselves in order to keep up a compelling conversation.
2. The main challenge is a lack of respect. Many people expect respect instead of earning it. Instead of people expecting respect, I think we should all learn to earn respect. Without respect, conversation cannot happen.
1. I do not agree... This article had me very confused, at the end they said a debate is for someone who wins or loses but that is basically what they said about conversation at the end
2. Challenges might be actually understanding some one and what they are trying to tell you.
3.When relgion is brought up by two ppl and the have difference but they are trying to explain each other so the other person understands. one person might be athiest the other might be christian
4.yes adults know alot more than others so they could be speakers more than listeners.
1.) I agree with the description of a good, respectful conversation because this opens an opportunity for everyone to share his/her views. Without an open, respectful conversation, people wouldn't get their points across.
2.) The challenges that come up when having a conversation are that people could talk over one another, not allowing everyone to get to say everything they want. Also, if one doesn't agree with what the speaker is saying, he/she might not want to listen. Therefore, this could be another challenge.
3.) This is most likely to happen with someone who does not want to hear anything other than what they want, or are trying to convey.
4.) I think young adults are capable of being listeners and speakers because they are young and still open to hear and learn new ideas.
1.) I agree with the description of a good, respectful conversation because it allows people to share their opinion on certain situations and may show a different perspective someone else had not thought about.
2.) There are always challenges with conversation. People disagree, get upset and sometimes defensive. It can cause unnecessary stress and loss of respect for the person you disagree with.
3.) This conversation is most likely to happen when a subject is brought up and one or both of the participates in the conversation feels that it is a personal situation. This is also known as a touchy subject and when people have strong opinions on topics, they most likely want the person listening to agree with them.
4.) I think all young adults are capable of this conversation, yet not all want or put forth the effort to listen and not talk over people. It is definitely possible, it just depends on the young adult.
1) this is indeed a realistic description of a respectful conversation - both sides are learning a new perspective on the world instead of trying to change each other's viewpoints
2) this conversation can be difficult if the issue in question is extremely controversial, or offensive to someone's family/race/gender/sexuality/etc
3) this kind of conversation can turn out of control if an issue is an extremely personal subject, and the other person does not respect their feelings
4) most young adults are perfectly capable of intelligent, polite conversation but for most people it's much easier and more direct to steadfastly hold one ideological view and bitterly defend it against anyone who challenges them. this is unfortunate as it hinders the process of building a society
I think we manage to live like that because we as humans have the ability to think complex thoughts.
1. I definitely agree with the given description of a good, respectful conversation. I agree with the point that in a conversation, neither side loses and both sides are changed. In a respectful conversation, the conversers are both going to learn new things and look at the particular topic from a different perspective. I also agree with the point that listening is the number one thing that a person needs to do to have a intelligible conversation.
2. I think in many conversations, people are not as respectful as represented in this paragraphl. I think that many people during conversations are more intent on proving the other person wrong and not necessarily being shown a different perspective.
3. This sort of conversation is most likely to happen with 2 educated, respectful people willing to learn new things and look at things from a different perspective.
4. I most definitely think young adults are capable of being the kinds of listeners and speakers as expressed in this paragraph. If the young adult is repectful enough, and interested enough in the subject, than this kind of conversation will very easily be achieved.
1. I definetely agree with the description of a good, respctfrul conversation. This is because if one person is only speaking to be heard, they do not have an open mind and do not truly care what others think. For a succesful conversation, two people must communicate efficiently by listening to what others are saying and respectfully stating their opinion in response.
2. The challenges to this kind of conversation include one person trying to "win". A respectable debater states their opinions on the topic and calmly responds to others opinions so that the listeners can have different perspectives to think about.
3. This kind of conversation often happens in politics.
4. Young adults are definetely capable of being respectable listeners and speakers because we are of the age where we can form our own opinions and respond to others without offending them.
I agree with this description of a good, respectful conversation because the ability to accept one's values even though they are different from ours gives us debates. Also, a person can learn from another person because they may have had different experiences in their life which cause them to think a different way. The main challenge to this kind of conversation occurs when people take things to heart and become defensive of what someone has to say. This kind of conversation is most likely to happen when a topic is brought up that touches home to two different sides who each have their own opinion on the topic. I think young adults are capable of being the kinds of listeners and speakers mentioned in the paragraph through their personal experiences that they wish to share with others.
1:Yes i believe its good to have this type of conversation because it allows the person to be open and give there honest opinion
2:some of the challenges are that some people may not want to actually listen
3:its most likely to happen when when the subject thats brought up has given each person there own types of ideas and personal opinions
4:yes i believe that young adults are capable of having this type of conversation when they want to.
1. Yes i do agree because it is true.
2. swallowing your pride and accepting that you dont have the only viewpoint.
3. under people who are comfortable with eachother and are both in good moods.
4. yes because they are mature
1)Yes, I agree because for one to come across as a respectful individual he/she must give other people the time of day to speak their minds, whether they agree with that persons thoughts or not. Then in some cases the other person view on the world might enlighten you by showing that the way you see the world isn't the only view available. As one may see the world as a wretched place and the other may see it as the best place.
2) Challenges to this type of conversation is that one party may feel that their opinion is the only one that matters. There could also be a challenge presented because people simply do not care enough about the next person and how they feel about certain things if any at all.
3) This conversation is more likely to take place between two people that are friends of some sort or maybe even between to people that have met for the first time.
4) In some cases yes and in others no because people that have conversations like these need to have at least a bit of selflessness to hold and contribute to a this kind of situation so that they are able to listen openly and without bias.
3. I think that this type of conversation would happen if both parties are in a setting they feel comfortable in.
4. Yes I do. Anyone and everyone can have respect. If you simply respect the other's opinion and agree to disagree you can have a good conversation.
1.Yes I agree with this description because it states that we need to listen and acknowledge others’ opinion. When people have a conversation, it is necessary to be respectful to what others have to say.
2.The challenge of having this kind of conversation is to even acknowledge that there are other opinions. Some people just accept their own opinion as the only right answer possible.
3.This conversation is most likely to happen when people come to a conflict with different opinion and they are both open to hearing other views.
4.I think many young adults are capable of being the kinds of listeners and speakers. We are old enough to have opinions with enough respect for others without insulting anyone.
1. I agree because respectful conversations run very smoothly. Rather than an argument where the other person may become bitter because of his loss in the debate, a conversation is just where two people converse about a topic-no rage included. Plus, if you want to be looked upon as wise or gracious, you need to have proper mannerisms while conversing. How a person acts in a conversation, I believe, describes who that person is.
2. There are numerous challenges to these kind of conversations. For example, some conversationists deeply believe in their opinion and if argued differently, these people will become brash. Also, in certain conversations, some people just can't lose; they can't fathom a loss when they believed their side was so powerfully correct.
3. A loud, ruthless conversation will most likely happen on topics that are very controversial. More specifically, these conversations prosper when the subjects aren't solvable. People can't fight for something that already has an answer to it. It's not like we would talk about the law of aerodynamics-it already has evidence! But things that aren't black and white are indeed things to converse about.
4. Yes, I think young adults are able to be good listeners and speakers. I believe most of us are well mannered and intelligent enough to discuss a topic-that having two different perspectives. Plus, if you're respectful and open minded, you are definitely worth talking to in these conversations.
1. I agree with this description of a good, respectful conversation. It is always important to at least be respectful of other viewpoints, but on the other hand, not forcing the other person to change their ideas to agree with yours.
2. A challenge that may come up is that when people are discussing certain topics, they may try to sway the other person's opinion to be the same as theirs.
3. This conversation is most likely to happen when the people feel very strongly about a certain topic, and are close minded to a certain opinion and aren't willing to consider any other views.
4. Yeah, I think young adults are capable of being good listeners and speakers because we are old enough to show respect to each other, but also young enough that we are still impressionable and open to other ways of thinking about things.
1) Yes i agree with the description of a good, respectful conversation. It allows both sides to be heard unlike a debate where one side only wants the other side to believe what they are saying.
2)There are many challenges to this kind of conversation. One challenge is that one person can be so confident in what they are saying that they wont get mad but simply just ignore what the other is saying. Another challenge is that the conversation can escalate into an argument.
3)This kind of conversation is most likely to happen when two different people have two different views and would like to understand what the other persons view is and will not get upset.
4)Yes I think that young adults are capable of being good listeners and speakers because they are old enough to show respect for another person. They also young enough to want to know more and hear others opinions on things.
1)Yes I do agree its good to have this type of conversation because it allows people to be open and give there opinion. When having a conversation with someone, you must be respectful to what they have to say.
2)Some of the challenges are that some people may not want to actually listen because they think they are right and that there is only one right response.
3)This conversation is most likely to happen when peoples opinions conflict with eachother. This kind of conversation often happens with politics.
4).I think some young adults are able to be these the kinds of listeners and speakers. We are old enough to have opinions. It is also hard to listen to people they disagree with.
1.) Yes, I do agree with this description, but not completely. I feel that this is the ideal conversation, but most conversations are not like that. One person can simply choose not to listen to the viewpoint of the other person. I believe that conversation, such as the one described, can only be achieved if both parties are somewhat open-minded to other opinions.
2.) I seem to have possibly answered this in question 1. The challenges to a conversation of this kind is that really stubborn people don't like to consider a stance on an issue other than their own. One must have a willingness to understand the other side's argument while debating.
3.) I think a conversation like the one described is not one that you would overhear in the Cafeteria. To me, this feels like a conversation that would take place between two mature people, maybe at dinner between coworkers. This conversation is how a political debate is supposed to be, but both main political parties are unwilling to try to understand conflicting views.
4.) I think it depends on how you are raised and how you think. People can be stubborn - especially with controversial issues! However, everyone is entitled to their own opinion, and it can hurt to be too open minded.
1.) I agree with this description of a respectful conversation because no one has to "win" in a conversation, it's all about telling someone what you believe in and respecting the other for what they believe in. Although, unfortunately I think that today's society thinks that conversations have winners.
2.) There are several challenges to this kind of conversation, one being that people don't wish to listen to other's and they think that their beliefs are the only correct ones. Another challenge is that arguments can arise from those who are strong headed and as a result more issues can occur.
3.)This conversation is most likely to happen under the conditions that there are two mature adults who wish to see the viewpoint of an issue from another perspective. This kind of a conversation is a calm, respectful way of communicating.
4.) I believe that some young adults are capable of being this kind of listeners and speakers. If we are mature enough to listen to large issues, then why shouldn't we be mature enough to speak on those issues? For one to be capable of being these kinds of listeners and speakers, they must be calm, understanding, and above all respectful. I wish I could say that all young adults are capable of this, but in today's society it appears that there are less than half of the country's young adults that are mature enough to be the listeners and speakers. The future is in the palm of our hands, and those of us who are capable of all of this must help those who are incapable.
1.) I do agree with this idea of a respectful conversation, especially because the process of having a conversation with another person of a different mindset can go very wrong if both parties do not make an effort to be understanding and open minded.
2.) When one has a very strong stand on the particular subject of conversation, it is really easy to get carried away in your effort to convince the other person to see the issue the way you do.
3.) Honestly this kind of conversation is pretty rare, but is most commonly found between people who care about each others feelings and are in tune to the emotions and ideals of the person they are conversing with.
4.) Most certainly. Anyone beyond the age of reason, with the intuition and desire to learn and exchange ideas is capable of engaging in a mature and symbiotic conversation.
1. I agree with this description of a good, respectful conversation. In order for it to be respectful, both parties should get an equal chance to present their ideas, and be heard.
2.Some chalanges to this conversation is that someone only wants their way, and is unable to meet in the middle, or even give the counterparts idea a chance.
3. This kind of conversation where one side tries to dominate the other is when someone of a high position uses there power to get what they want, or when someone or a certain race of people are not respected as much as the average person. The supperior feels they can talk down to the person they are talking to and ultimalty get what they want.
4.I think young adults are more than capable of being good listeners and speakers. It is harder than most people think to be a good listener and accept what other people have to say
1.) I would agree with this description of a good, respectful conversation. Although I don't see this happen often, a good conversation can easily change someones views. I know that my views have been widened before from just one conversation.
2.) Challenges to a good conversation would be finding another person who will listen. There are a lot of people who will think they are always right, and even if the other view makes perfect sense also, the person is too naive to accept it.
3.) This conversation will happen when there are two people who feel differently about something, but are still opened minded enough to listen to another person and hear a someone else's point of view.
4.) I do think young adults are capable of this, although, I think that more times than not this conversation will not happen. I say that because young adults are not mature enough to be adult about it and actually listen to others.
1.) I agree with this description of a good respectful conversation. I agree with this because,even though people may have different viewpoints, there is no winner in a conversation.
2.) The challenges of this conversation are listening to different viewpoints, even if they may not agree with yours.
3.)This type of conversation is most likely to happen when people are in a debate with each other, and want to hear each others viewpoints on subjects.
4.)I feel that young adults are capable of being the kinds of listeners and speakers, since we are finally of that age where we are mature enough to hear another person's viewpoints, and are mature enough to participate in those discussions.
1. yes I agree with a good conversation unless one persons opinion is so wrong that you cant get anything out of what they are saying. But, if both people get something useful out of it then its great.
2.trying to get both people to not only listen to each other, but actually understand and dissect what each other are saying.
3. when your talking about a concept or idea that has many different view points or solutions.
4. maybe, if you get kids that can cooperate well, but most really struggle with this easy concept.
1) I agree with the description of a good conversation. They are generally friendly and interesting and you learn many things through it. 2) Being able to listen to another persons opinion and truly consider it from their point of view 3) When talking about a topic that attracts different viewpoints and opinions. 4) I do believe they can, as long as they are mature enough to handle listening to another persons ideas.
1) I definitely agree with this description of a good, respectful conversation because I believe is the best way to get your view points across to someone and learn new perspectives. 2) A challenge to this kind of conversation would be someone shoving their view points on the other person, then not listening to the other person try to explain their ideas, which happens everyday in politics. 3) This type of conversation is most likely to happen when there is a topic with many different view points, like many controversial topics in discussion today. 4) I think young adults who are open minded are capable of being the listener and the speaker in this situation because they are not as close minded as many adults are, so they are open to new ideas and different view points in the world.
2. As I stated in my first response, there are those that don't want to listen to others' opinions. They are too fixed on their own ideas, and need to be more open-minded.
3. This usually happens between two friends who share similar interests. Although their ideas may differ, they can generally agree more with their friends than strangers.
4. Yes, because as we grow, most of us become more open-minded and aware of the world around us. We are able to use our minds and think and speak our opinions much better than younger children.
I strongly agree with the description of a good, respectful conversation. A conversations lets you share your views with someone else and opens up your ears to learn someone elses opinion.
2. Challenges to this conversation is one person may be stubborn and not open to hear your opinion. The second you say something they would just shoot your opinion down and make it impossible for you to prove your point.
3. This conversation happens between two friends arguing maybe about two different things. Since they are friends they listen to the other persons argument and respect their opinion.
4. Yes, I think adults are very capable of being good listeners and speakers. I think adults are old enough to know to be respectful and be open to new ideas and opinions. They are also old enough to be experienced and be able to back up their statement or opinion.
1)I agree with this description of a good, respectful conversation. It is important to carry out debates and every day conversation like the example because being respectful to your peer will in turn make him or her respectful back when you state your case.
2) Challenges to this kind of conversation involve people not cooperating. In order to have a civil conversation it is essential that both parties are on the same page to respect each other’s opinions.
3) The conditions under which this conversation is most likely to happen is when one is completely convinced that their opposition’s opinion is extremely wrong.
4) I think that young adults are definitely capable of having conversations like these; however I do believe that some are not just because they are still immature.
1.) Yes I do agree with the description of a good, respectful conversation. I agree that in conversation, if you take the proper approach, you will learn and understand the other side. Even if you don't agree.
2.) The challenge to this kind of conversation is listening. Most use the time that the other is talking to think about what they are going to say. If you listen, who knows, you may learn something new. Another challenge is that you have to keep your head. There is no sense in getting angry with somebody for sharing their views, when you are doing just the same.
3.) This conversation typically happens when sharing views that are two sided like politics, or sports, or anything really.
4.) Yes i do, young adults may have a harder time doing what I stated previously in number 2. But i have had very mature conversations with my peers before.
1. I agree with the description of a good and respectful conversation. To me it is important that one can share their own views and also pay attention to and respect the opposing views of the person they are debating with.
2. This type of conversation could easily lead to a heated debate or quarrel if one does not listen well to the other or express his or her own opinions in a respectful manner.
3. This conversation is likely to happen during a formal debate or casual conversation between respectful and professional people, who happen to share opposing views.
4. I think that young adults are capable of being respectful listeners and speakers to some extent. In the end it depends on the level of maturity of each young adult. While some might be able to keep their composure and hold a civilized conversation, others may be short in temper and become defensive toward any opposing view.
1) I do agree with this description of a good, respectful conversation. Understanding the reasoning behind both sides of an issue is how we grow as people and develop (perhaps change) our opinions. Disciplining one's self to genuinely respect other peoples' views is an important element of good character.
2) Often conversations of this such nature can create rifts between people. Many are so rooted in their ways that they can not bring themselves to respect those who differ from their ideas. This potential conflict is often why people suggest not discussing politics or religion.
3) This kind of discussion is most likely to occur when people are open to receiving different viewpoints. Most likely a discussion like this can occur when people are not discussing opinions they've come to on their own (without prior indoctrination aka raised in a family that believes such and such.) Usually ideas that you've come to on your own are more malleable than one's you've been raised with.
4) Of course. Quality intellectual conversation is not limited to 'adults'. Often adults are more locked in to their own views and close-minded than people in high school/college. Young people are generally more open to change, or at least truly evaluating their principles, than most.
1. I definitely agree with this definition. It is extremely important to be open to other peoples opinions and hear them out to come to an understanding as to why they think what they do.
2. The challenges to this kind of conversation is it may be difficult to hear what other people have to think about an issue that you feel strongly about when they disagree. It's frustrating when you can't convince people to think the way you do.
3. It is rare to find this kind of conversation. It happens typically when people are sharing viewpoints, I see it mostly in politics.
4. I do believe that young adults are capable of this, not always are adults more mature then kids. Having an open minded conversation isn't about age, it's about having equal respect and understanding for the person you're speaking to.
1.) Yes, I agree with this description,because hearing what others have to say can beneficial for you.
2.) The challenges of this kind of conversation is that not everybody agree and when others don't agree on the same issue they tend to get very aggressive.
3.)This kind of conversation would mostly happen if someone is passionate about it.
4.)Yes, I think young adults can be good listeners and speakers if everyone sat down and actually listen to what others have to say and see their point of view.
1.) Yes. The key here is respect. Respect is a critical component in conversation. While debate may appear on the surface to be respectful, debates have a winner and a loser while a respectful conversation does not.
2.) I would say again, respect. Respecting differing opinions others hold and beliefs which can be quite emotionally charged are sometimes challenging obstacles when conversing.
3.) In my opinion, this does NOT happen when politics and religion are discussed. It is quite challenging to maintain a level of respect when topics such as these can easily become so heated.
4.) Yes. I think we model those behaviors we see at home.
1) A conversation is defined as The spoken exchange of thoughts, opinions, and feelings; talk. A debate is defined as to engage in argument by discussing opposing points. A debate is a conversation where two sides disagree and then discuss their opposing opinions. In a conversation this description is saying that the people talking listen to each other. In that respect I agree with this description of what a conversation really means.
2) The challenges to this type of conversation is when one or both sides are not willing to listen to the other, OR if someone says something offensive. This creates a tough environment where both people get mad and start yelling or defending themselves, which is nesissary.
3) Of course, this type of conversation is most likely to happen when both sides agree with each other. However, as I said before it can work anytime when both people are listening to eachother as long as no one says something offensive or rude.
4) Anyone can engage in this type of conversation that is willing to listen when nothing offencive is said.
1. I do agree with the description of a good, respectful, conversation because neither opinion wins/loses. It is important to be open to new ideas and to be able to respect ones you may not agree with.
2. Challenges to this kind of conversation is maintaining composure. When you are discussing a topic you feel very strongly for, being able to listen and let someone else share his/her own opinions can be difficult.
3. This conversation is most likely to happen when the topic being discussed isn't something that involves personal beliefs (religion, politics, etc.) This type of conversation happens when in your head there is room compromise.
4. Young adults are capable of being good listeners and speakers. Although young adults may not be as mature, they do take after their role models, such as parents and teachers, who also have the ability for respectful conversation.
1. Yes I certainly agree with this descripton of a good, respectful conversation. Listening and respecting what others have to say is key in conversation and it's very important to openly accept other opinions.
2. The challenges to this type of conversation can be that one may think their opinion is the only correct one and tune out all other opinons which in the end accomplishes nothing. In order to have meaningful conversation much respect is needed on both sides.
3. This type of conversation is most likely to happen with inviduals who are comfortable putting their opinions in the open to their peers as well as possessing the maturity to respectfully discuss differences.
4. I don't want to say I think all young adults are capable of this kinds of conversation because some lack respect and maturity, however, those who do not certainly are capable. Young adults are certainly old enough to hold valid opinions and be able to discuss them and perhaps create new ones. I feel as if we see this everyday without even realizing it.
1. I definitely agree with this description of a good, respectful conversation since unlike a debate, neither side loses, but gains knowledge and understanding. It's sort of a win/win situation.
2. Challenges that can be faced with this kind of conversation include difficulty understanding, or wanting to understand. Some people have such strong views on a topic, that they tend to ignore conflicting ideas.
3. This kind of conversation would most likely occur in the presence of those willing to learn. Those who are willing to step out of their comfort zone, and look at something from a different perspective.
4. I truly believe young adults are capable of being good listeners and speakers. We are at an age where although we don't know everything, we are still passionate about the things we believe in...those who truly want to converse in a serious manner will realize that respect and maturity are needed.
1. I think that this is a good description of a respectful conversation. I feel that in a respectful conversation neither participant should feel attacked, and opinions should flow freely.
2. There are several challenges to respectful conversations; most of which stem from people's inability to accept other ways of life. People may be afraid of other's differences, or may simply not have the common decency to be respectful.
3. Respectful conversation is most likely to occur when two people feel like having a respectful conversation; that is why they occur so infrequently. It's easier to simply dislike and avoid than to sit down and work out your differences.
4. I think that young adults are far less set in their ways than adults. We seem to be more accepting and more willing to listen to one's differences than those that were alive during the civil rights era.
1. I agree with the description of a good, respectful conversation. Humans are communicative beings and its one of the biggest ways that we interact. Communication through conversation is what makes us humans and sets us apart from other animals.
2. Many challenges are faced with this type of conversation. For example, someone may be too immature to hold such a respectful conversation. They will not accept another persons way of life, because maybe they are just too immature to comprehend anything else that is not from their point of view.
3. This conversation could occur between two educated, mature people that want to prove their educated opinion about something to someone else.
4. I believe that young adults are capable of being these kinds of listeners and speakers. Being a "young adult" myself, I personally have withheld a conversation such as this. Being young makes me more accepting of other ideas and explore beliefs, which helps me choose what I want believe in and what I agree with once I am older.
1) I completely believe that this is a good description of a respectful conversation. Holding true to your beliefs on the subject, but also listening to the views that others may have in a conversation is both respectful and vital for an intellectual conversation.
2) More times than not, unwilling, ignorant people hinder one another from having this sort of conversation to be had. The people who will only state his or her beliefs, but not listen to another individuals views on the matter, not stay open to them, will hinder them from having this type of conversation. As well as people who only listen to others opinions in a conversation and base their view strictly off of what they say without even proclaiming their own view on the matter also hinders this type of conversation to be had.
3) This type of conversation is only going to happen between two mature and educated individuals. Individuals who truly believe in what they state, as well as listen to others views on the conversation. Individuals must understand that in an educated, intellectual conversation, you may not always be right when discussing your views, but you are never wrong when proclaiming your own ideas.
4) Yes I do believe that young adults have the capability or potential to become this kind of listener and speaker. I believe this because if young adults are truly curious about the world around them and are interested in finding the answer to the dilemma at hand, they will learn how to become better at conversing with others in their pursuit in answering the various questions or problems that the world holds.
1. Yes. I believe that it is important in conversation. I believe that arguing and having negative attitudes does not make progress with anything. I think that you need to be able to respectfully look at someone else's point of view.
2. The challenges to this type of conversation is that it may be difficult to listen to someone who thinks differently than you. In a heated debate on a controversial topic, you may find it hard to be respectful.
3. In a calm, casual setting. This helps with the attitudes of the people; because if you put them in a non-relaxing situation, it will probably induce a adversarial situation.
4. I believe that adults are capable of this. Adults are mature and should be able to hold back negative attitudes to have respectful conversation. I think that it is of paramount importance, because adults are the ones who influence the younger generation.
1. I agree that this is a good description of a productive conversation because you need to share and exchange ideas in order to learn things from your peers
2. It might be difficult to stay in the discussion if the two parties have conflicting views. If it is a controversial topic you may have to hold back a bit as to not offend the other person.
3. This type of conversation is most likely to happen in a comfortable yet controlled environment so that all thoughts are complete and expressed effectively
4. Young adults are definitely capable of having conversations like this. From personal experience, being in a debate is fun and interesting and also such a learning experience. Young adults are still trying to learn about the world, so the curiosity really feeds the conversation.
1. Yes I do agree that it is good to have respectful and good conversations because it allows the person to say what is on their mind and what they feel compare to saying things that they do not believe in just to be welcomed.
2. Some challenges might be that when you talk about your opinion people might not even want to bother if they disagree.
3. It is most likely that this will happen when a topic is brought up where people can have their own opinions about that specific topic.
4. Yes because when they have something to say they will want people do listen, so I think young adults are capable.
1. Yes I do agree that it is good to have respectful and good conversations because it allows the person to say what is on their mind and what they feel compare to saying things that they do not believe in just to be welcomed.
2. Some challenges might be that when you talk about your opinion people might not even want to bother if they disagree.
3. It is most likely that this will happen when a topic is brought up where people can have their own opinions about that specific topic.
4. Yes because when they have something to say they will want people do listen, so I think young adults are capable.
1. I agree with the description of a good conversation. If you both listen to each others ideas, it helps you get a feel for both sides of an argument, thus, making you aware of the situation much more than you previously were.
2. If it is a touchy subject, it may be hard to stay in conversation if you have highly conflicting views. Such topics could be political, social or economic.
3. Most of these conversations are most likely to happen where the environment is controlled and compatible to each of the parties involves so each can truly express their feelings.
4. Yes I do. The main word in young adults is adults. Therefore, if referred to as young adults, they should be able to act as if there were adults. It is important that we are able to do this now, because if our communication skills are lacking now it means they could be lacking later in life.
I agree with the description of a good respectful conversation because each person gets to explain themselves and no one gets to win. The challenges to this conversation are if the people start going back in forth with each other. In schools and a lot of places in the world. For example when two friends are talking. I do feel like young adults are capable of listening and talking and now days we are very opinionated and curious.
1. No i do not think it is a good and respectful conversation because people are competing to win a debate, and all feelings must be expressed no matter how much feelings get hurt. If someone gets angry, it just depends on who that person is.
2. Being respectful is a challenge in debate. I recommend being respectful, because you could really hurt someone's feelings, but i also do not think it is mandatory.
3. Debate teams, subjects about religion, gay marriage, and political stuff.
4. It depends on what type of person you are. It depends on how you were raised , and what zodiac sign you are.
I think a good respectful conversation is the best kind of conversation. If your not respectful with your conversation then you will be too aggressive with your argument and will come off very badly. If a conversation is kept respectful and open-minded, everybody's opinion is heard.
You can't be too passive or too aggressive for a respectful conversation. You have to listen and you have to respond appropriately.
This kind of conversation is most likely to happen with some kind of monitor.
I think young adults are the most capable of open conversations for listening and speaking because they still have open and growing minds too be filled with opinions.
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